FAQs

 

What is mediation?

Mediation is a voluntary, confidential process where a neutral third party helps individuals resolve disputes through productive communication and collaborative problem-solving. Rather than making decisions for you, the mediator guides the conversation so you can reach agreements that work for your unique situation.

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What types of cases do you mediate?

Divorce and separation
Pre-suit divorce mediation
Pro se (self-represented) divorce mediation
Parenting plans and time-sharing
Child support discussions
Division of assets and debts
Communication and co-parenting concerns
Modification of existing agreements
Post-judgment family matters
Family conflict resolution

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What does Pro Se mean?

"Pro se" is a legal term that means representing yourself without an attorney. In a pro se divorce, both parties complete the divorce process without hiring lawyers to represent them in court. Many couples choose mediation to help them reach agreements before filing the necessary documents with the court. While attorneys are not required, either party may consult with an attorney at any time for independent legal advice or to review final documents before filing.

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What is Pre-Suit Mediation?

Pre-suit mediation takes place before a lawsuit is filed with the court. Instead of beginning with litigation, couples work together with a neutral mediator to resolve issues such as parenting plans, child support, property division, and financial matters. If agreements are reached, many couples can move forward with an uncontested divorce, often saving time, reducing costs, and minimizing conflict.

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What is an uncontested divorce?

An uncontested divorce is one in which both spouses agree on all major issues, including property division, parenting plans, child support, and any other matters that need to be resolved. Mediation can help couples reach these agreements in a respectful, structured environment before filing with the court. While many uncontested divorces can be completed without each spouse hiring an attorney, either party may choose to seek independent legal advice at any stage of the process.

 

How is mediation different from going to court?

Unlike litigation, mediation encourages cooperation instead of confrontation. Rather than having a judge make decisions for your family, mediation allows you to maintain control over the outcome.

Many families find mediation:

* Less stressful
* More cost-effective
* Faster than traditional litigation
* More private and confidential
* Better for preserving healthy co-parenting relationships

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Is mediation confidential?

Yes. Florida mediation is generally confidential under state law, with limited legal exceptions. This confidentiality allows both parties to speak openly while working toward resolution.

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Will the mediator make decisions for us?

No. A mediator remains completely neutral and does not take sides or decide who is right or wrong. My role is to facilitate productive conversations, identify areas of agreement, and help both parties explore solutions.

All final decisions remain yours.

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Do I need an attorney?

Not necessarily.

Many people choose to have an attorney review any agreements before signing, while others attend mediation without legal representation. You are welcome to consult with an attorney before, during, or after mediation if you choose.

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Can we still mediate if we disagree on almost everything?

Yes.

In fact, many people begin mediation with significant disagreements. The purpose of mediation is not to eliminate conflict but to help organize difficult conversations into manageable steps toward resolution.

Even partial agreements can save significant time, money, and emotional stress.

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What if emotions become overwhelming?

Family conflict often involves strong emotions, especially during separation or divorce.

My background as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist provides an understanding of communication patterns, relationship dynamics, and conflict management. While mediation is not therapy, these skills help create a respectful, structured environment where productive conversations can occur.

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Is mediation therapy?

No.

Therapy focuses on emotional healing, mental health, and improving relationships. Mediation focuses on resolving specific disputes and reaching practical agreements.

Although I have experience as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, my role during mediation is that of a neutral mediator—not a therapist for either party.

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How long does mediation take?

Every family is different.

Some matters are resolved in a single session, while more complex situations may require multiple meetings. The number of sessions depends on the issues involved, the level of conflict, and the willingness of both parties to negotiate.

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Can mediation be done virtually?

Yes.

Virtual mediation allows participants to meet securely from separate locations while maintaining the same structured mediation process. Online mediation is convenient, flexible, and often reduces stress for everyone involved.

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What happens if we reach an agreement?

If an agreement is reached, the terms are documented in a written settlement or memorandum of understanding. Depending on your situation, the agreement may then be reviewed by your attorneys and submitted to the court for approval, if required.

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What if we don't reach an agreement?

Not every issue must be resolved in mediation to make meaningful progress.

Many clients leave with partial agreements that narrow the issues needing further legal attention. Even when a complete settlement is not reached, mediation often improves communication and clarifies each party's priorities.

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Is mediation right for everyone?

Mediation is appropriate for many families, but not every situation.

Cases involving domestic violence, significant safety concerns, coercive control, or an inability for one party to negotiate freely may require a different process. If mediation is not appropriate, I will discuss other options or encourage consultation with legal counsel.

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How do I schedule a mediation?

Scheduling is simple.

Contact me by phone or through the contact form on this website. I will answer your questions, explain the mediation process, discuss availability, and help determine whether mediation is the right fit for your situation.